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>> Hill: ON THIS THANKSGIVING
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WEEKEND, WE HAVE A STORY FROM
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MINNESOTA'S TWIN CITIES PBS
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STATION ABOUT FINDING FAMILY.
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THIS PAST SUMMER, KAOMI LEE
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SHARED HER PERSONAL STORY.
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LIKE MANY OF THE MORE THAN
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200,000 ADOPTED KOREANS AROUND
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THE WORLD, LEE WAS ADOPTED AS A
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SMALL CHILD, BROUGHT TO A NEW
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COUNTRY, AND RAISED BY PARENTS
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OF A DIFFERENT RACE.
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LEE STILL DOES NOT KNOW HER
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BIRTH PARENTS, BUT A DECISION TO
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SHARE HER RESULTS FROM A D.N.A.
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TEST BROUGHT A SURPRISING
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DISCOVERY.
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>> WITH MOST OF THE STATE IN
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DROUGHT CONDITIONS AND HALF THE
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STATE IN SEVERE DROUGHT...
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>> Reporter: AS ALMANAC'S
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GREATER MINNESOTA REPORTER, I
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USUALLY REPORT ON STORIES FROM
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AROUND THE STATE.
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THISSTORY IS A LITTLE
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DIFFERENT.
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THIS IS ACTUALLY WHEN I BECAME A
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CITIZEN.
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50 YEARS AGO, I WAS ADOPTED AS
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AN INFANT FROM SOUTH KOREA AND
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SENT TO A LUTHERAN PASTOR AND
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HIS WIFE IN RURAL MINNESOTA.
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I THOUGHT I LEFT KOREA WITH JUST
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A NAME, A PRESUMED BIRTH DATE
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AND THE CLOTHES ON MY BACK, WITH
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NO HOPE OF FINDING FAMILY.
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LITTLE DID I KNOW I ALSO HAD
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SOMETHING VERY POWERFUL: MY
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D.N.A.
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AND I'’’M NOT ALONE.
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>> WELL, BEN HAS SPOKEN TO HIS
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HALF BROTHER, JEFF, BUT THEY'VE
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NEVER MET FACE TO FACE UNTIL
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NOW.
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BEN, ARE YOU READY?
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>> I'’’M READY.
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>> JEFF, COME ON OUT.
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(APPLAUSE)
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>> Reporter: COMMERCIAL D.N.A.
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TESTS HAVE BEEN CONNECTING
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RELATIVES TO EACH OTHER FOR THE
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PAST 15 YEARS.
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FOR KOREAN ADOPTEES WHO OFTEN
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CAN'T ACCESS RECORDS OR BIRTH
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IDENTITIES, THE TESTS HAVE BEEN
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A GAME CHANGER.
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>> RIGHT NOW, WE HAVE OVER 12
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MILLION CUSTOMERS, AND ABOUT 80%
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OF THOSE CUSTOMERS HAVE FOUND A
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THIRD COUSIN OR CLOSER.
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I THINK A LOT OF THIS
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INFORMATION IS REALLY INVALUABLE
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FOR EVERYONE, BUT SPECIFICALLY
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FOR ADOPTEES, YOU KNOW--
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ESPECIALLY BECAUSE TYPICALLY
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ADOPTEES DON'T HAVE FAMILY
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HISTORY, WHETHER IT'S THEIR
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ANCESTRY OR HEALTH.
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AND ACTUALLY CERTAIN ANCESTRIES
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CAN PUT YOU AT A HIGHER RISK OF
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DEVELOPING CERTAIN DISEASES, AND
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SO WE'VE HEARD FROM SO MANY
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CUSTOMERS IT'S IMPACTED THEIR
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LIVES TREMENDOUSLY.
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>> Reporter: I TOOK 23andMe's
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D.N.A. TEST FIVE YEARS AGO.
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I SHARED THE RESULTS ON SOME
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OTHER DATABASES, AND THEN THIS
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SPRING I GOT A MESSAGE.
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SOMEONE IN DENMARK THOUGHT THEY
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WERE MY HALF SISTER OR NIECE,
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AND LIKE ME SHE WAS ALSO A
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KOREAN ADOPTEE.
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>> YOU KNOW, I THINK, OH, YOU
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JUST TAKE IT A DAY AT A TIME.
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>> Reporter: WE DID MORE TESTS.
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ALL SIGNS POINTED TO HALF
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SISTERS.
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BUT AFTER DENMARK OPENED TO
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VISITORS, I DECIDED TO FLY AND
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MEET LISA BECK.
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BUT I WAS STILL NERVOUS.
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HOW WOULD IT FEEL TO MEET A
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PREVIOUSLY UNKNOWN BIOLOGICAL
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SIBLING FOR THE FIRST TIME?
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WOULD WE GET ALONG?
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WOULD WE HAVE ANYTHING TO TALK
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ABOUT?
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WOULD MEETING HER HELP ME BETTER
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UNDERSTAND MYSELF?
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THEN, THE MOMENT HAPPENED.
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>> I'M TEARING UP, OH!
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(UNINTELLIGIBLE)
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>> DID YOU WAIT A LONG TIME?
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>> YES, AND I WAS GETTING
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NERVOUS!
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>> YEAH, YEAH, YEAH, YEAH, YEAH.
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>> OH, HOW NICE TO SEE YOU!
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>> SO NICE TO SEE YOU!
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>> Reporter: WE GOT A CHANCE TO
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SIT DOWN TOGETHER, FACE TO FACE.
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I LEARNED THAT LISA DECIDED TO
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DO A D.N.A. TEST ON A WHIM.
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>> EARLY MORNING, I LAY IN MY
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BED, AND I WAS VERY TIRED.
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AND I JUST TOOK MY PHONE OUT AND
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THEN, "OH, WHAT?
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I HAVE A SISTER!"
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I WAS SO CONFUSED AND EXCITED AT
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THE SAME TIME, YEAH.
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>> Reporter: WHAT WAS GOING
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THROUGH YOUR MIND WHEN-- WHEN
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YOU SAW ME?
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>> I WAS AMAZED.
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I WAS SURPRISED BECAUSE I CAN
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SEE THE SIMILARITIES, BUT I
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CAN'T PUT A FINGER ON IT, YOU
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KNOW, EXACTLY WHAT IT IS.
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BUT I CAN SEE WE LOOK ALIKE, YOU
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KNOW-- NOSE, MOUTH, CHEEKS, AND
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SO ON.
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SO, I CAN SEE WE--
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>> Reporter: I CAN SEE IT IN THE
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EYES.
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>> YEAH, YEAH, YEAH.
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SO, I CAN SEE WE LOOK SIMILAR.
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>> Reporter: LISA AND I DON'T
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KNOW WHO OUR BIRTH PARENTS ARE.
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FINDING EACH OTHER THROUGH
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D.N.A. FEELS LIKE BEATING ALL
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ODDS.
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OUR STORY WAS EVEN FEATURED ON
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NATIONAL DANISH TV.
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(UNINTELLIGIBLE)
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>> YEAH, YEAH, YEAH, YEAH, YEAH.
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>> WE-- WE DID IT!
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>> WE DID IT!
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(LAUGHTER)
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>> Reporter: WE ALSO MET WITH
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KOREAN ADOPTEES IN DENMARK.
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LIKE MINNESOTA, THERE ARE
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THOUSANDS HERE.
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>> NICE TO MEET YOU!
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>> Reporter: LISA AND I HAD FUN
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GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER
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DURING THE SHORT VISIT, BUT
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INSTEAD OF ANSWERING QUESTIONS,
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MEETING LISA CREATED MORE.
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NOW THAT I KNOW ABOUT YOU, IT
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JUST MAKES ME START TO, YOU
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KNOW, GO DOWN THE RABBIT HOLE
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OF, WHO WAS-- WHO WAS OUR
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FATHER?
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WHAT-- IS HE STILL ALIVE?
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DO WE HAVE OTHER SIBLINGS OUT
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THERE?
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I'M ALSO VERY AWARE THAT MANY
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ADOPTEES DO NOT GET THIS
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OPPORTUNITY, AND THAT HELPS ME
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TO KNOW HOW SPECIAL IT IS THAT
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WE-- WEDIDFIND EACH OTHER.